Ep 40 - Lucy Aphramor

 

Lucy Aphramor on disrupting narratives, how relationships with food can serve as a vehicle for deeper work, & redefining the default for "good Dietitian."

  • What interrupts our access to our body story – what is permissible and accessible?

  • How can we provide a space where “I am OK” is available?

  • Relational ways of connecting using a variety of frameworks using metaphors and stories

  • Assumptions that are made through the dominant medical framework

  • The importance of validation & enquiry

  • When people discover it for themselves, then I help theorise it

  • How we can support people to understand their own story

  • The “health” narrative is so powerful that people will erase their own story

  • Supporting people to take their own story seriously

  • Food, eating and body are the vehicle for the deep work….

  • Being guided by values

  • Being able to sit with our own discomfort, stepping away from “fixing”

  • What defines a “good Dietitian”

  • If “fixing people” and “telling people what to do” is a strong part of our professional identity, and if I want to be a “good Dietitian” then that will be our default…..

  • Acting with integrity and acknowledging when we’ve got it wrong

  • Self compassion is for everyone, including us!

  • How Lucy weaves in self compassion

  • Disconnection stops compassion from flourishing

  • What does "The Magic Biscuit" say to you?

  • Honouring story as a powerful way of connecting

  • Visibility, and taking risk

  • Walking away is always a walking towards.....

  • The practice of taking choices......

  • Creating three examples as a way to move away from the binary

  • Lucy's dream Dietetic course!!

  • Expand the definition of what it means to be a Dietitian, "do" Dietetics

  • How we can understand how trauma shows up - and why it's pivotal