From Office to Online: Navigating the Virtual Space with Fiona Sutherland & Julie Duffy Dillon
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notes from the conversation
Why seeing people virtually is not the same as in-person
How we can set things up in a way that both honours health and wellbeing, and client connectedness
Keeping the client in charge at all times
Remembering that this is still a relational space
What might come up for a client can they may or may not bring up with you
Feeling the step from live to virtual as a form of distancing and rejection - WE know this is not rejection or emotional distancing but if it is felt as such, needs to be dealt with as such….
What they might need
Set it up well from the start
Clear communication, not only focussing on “what has to happen” but also what your client needs from you whilst you are working virtually
Take the time to ask about THEIR experience of Gotmoving live to virtual - this matters
Center THEIR needs at all times, even when things come up for us (take it to supervision!!)
Reassurance whilst sitting with uncertainty
EMPHASIS POINTS
slow down
check in
redefine the process (eg. “progress”, “recovery” etc)
What might come up for US in this process?
Clients experiences of fear, distance might feel like rejection to us, they might cancel, reschedule
We’re feeling the distance and might over-compensate
It might remind us of distancing from our own history.
A “flattening” of the relation-ing
A feeling of “working” harder
Feelings of incompetence